St Mary's Church

Stoke D'Abernon, Surrey


Wedding at St Mary's

If you are considering getting married at St Mary’s you must either live in the parish of St Mary’s or of St Andrew’s Cobham or you must be able to demonstrate a 'qualifying connection' with St Mary's. Details of qualifying connections together with useful general information can be found at

If you would like to book your wedding at St Mary's please contact the Parish Administrator via the Contact Us page to register your details and to arrange an initial meeting.

Our booklet, 'Arranging your Wedding at St Mary's, a Guide for Wedding Couples', may be downloaded here

You may have the Church bells rung after your wedding service.  The clergy will discuss this with you.

When Church bells are rung for a wedding it is part of our country's wonderful heritage,and a striking and joyful way to announce to the outside world the commitment you have made to each other. The process of bellringing is not mechanised, but an ancient craft. Each time that you hear English church bells it is trained bell ringers who take hold and pull the bell ropes at hand stroke and backstroke. The bells are hung in the wooden bell tower of St. Mary's above the ringers. We hope you enjoy them. The society of St. Mary's Bell Ringers provide a welcoming experience and if you would like, they are happy to meet you ahead of your special day, and 'show you the ropes'!

You may have the bells rung after your wedding service.  The clergy will discuss this with you.

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Visiting the Church

The church is regularly open to visitors at set times. Please read the Visiting St Mary's page for more details.

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